Tuesday, January 8, 2019

QUOTE OF THE DAY #105- GOOD LISTENER #6

FROM: https://www.positivityblog.com/better-listener/

Ask instead of trying to mind-read.
Reading someone’s mind is quite difficult. Most of the time impossible. Still, so many of us have tried to do it and started conversations based on that too many times.
So when you feel an impulse to assume and mind-read stop that and start being curious and ask open-ended questions. Going for this kind of question instead of the ones where the other person can just answer a yes or a no will help him/her to open up and to start explaining and sharing what is going on.
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𝒲𝐸 𝒜𝑅𝐸 𝒯𝐻𝐸 𝐵𝐸𝒮𝒯 𝐵𝐿𝒪𝒢 𝐹𝒪𝑅 𝒴𝒪𝒰𝑅 𝐸𝒱𝐸𝑅𝒴𝒟𝒜𝒴 𝒬𝒰𝒪𝒯𝐸𝒮 𝒜𝐵𝒪𝒰𝒯 𝐿𝐼𝐹𝐸! 𝒱𝐼𝒮𝐼𝒯 𝒜𝒩𝒟 𝐹𝒪𝐿𝐿𝒪𝒲 𝒰𝒮 𝐹𝒪𝑅 𝑀𝒪𝑅𝐸!

QUOTE OF THE DAY #104- GOOD LISTENER #5

FROM: https://www.positivityblog.com/better-listener/

Summarize what was said.
I have found that taking a few seconds to summarize what someone just said – like a longer segment about what happened at work or in a relationship – makes it a lot easier to make sure I’ve understood what happened.
As I say that summary out loud the other person can adjust or correct my understanding and so I can add my perspective, thoughts or questions in a better way based on that rather than my assumptions about what happened and of how the other person’s experienced this situation.
Or I can take some kind of action based on what they actually meant and not what I thought they meant (for example in a work setting where a misunderstanding could lead to frustration and time lost if you misunderstand).

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𝒲𝐸 𝒜𝑅𝐸 𝒯𝐻𝐸 𝐵𝐸𝒮𝒯 𝐵𝐿𝒪𝒢 𝐹𝒪𝑅 𝒴𝒪𝒰𝑅 𝐸𝒱𝐸𝑅𝒴𝒟𝒜𝒴 𝒬𝒰𝒪𝒯𝐸𝒮 𝒜𝐵𝒪𝒰𝒯 𝐿𝐼𝐹𝐸! 𝒱𝐼𝒮𝐼𝒯 𝒜𝒩𝒟 𝐹𝒪𝐿𝐿𝒪𝒲 𝒰𝒮 𝐹𝒪𝑅 𝑀𝒪𝑅𝐸!


QUOTE OF THE DAY #103- GOOD LISTENER #4

FROM: How to Become a Better Listener: 10 Simple Tips

Keep that smart phone away.
Browsing the internet on your phone or your computer while trying to listen usually leads missing some part of the conversation and to the person talking feeling like he or she is not listened to.
So put that phone down while listening if you don’t need it to check something or write something down as a part of the conversation.

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𝒲𝐸 𝒜𝑅𝐸 𝒯𝐻𝐸 𝐵𝐸𝒮𝒯 𝐵𝐿𝒪𝒢 𝐹𝒪𝑅 𝒴𝒪𝒰𝑅 𝐸𝒱𝐸𝑅𝒴𝒟𝒜𝒴 𝒬𝒰𝒪𝒯𝐸𝒮 𝒜𝐵𝒪𝒰𝒯 𝐿𝐼𝐹𝐸! 𝒱𝐼𝒮𝐼𝒯 𝒜𝒩𝒟 𝐹𝒪𝐿𝐿𝒪𝒲 𝒰𝒮 𝐹𝒪𝑅 𝑀𝒪𝑅𝐸!

QUOTE OF THE DAY #102- GOOD LISTENER #3

FROM: How to Become a Better Listener: 10 Simple Tips

 Keep the eye-contact.
Looking everywhere except at the person talking can make it seem like you are not listening. And then the conversation suffers.
So keep the eye-contact. I found it easier to start doing this more often when I:
  • Took it step-by-small-step and improved my eye-contact time in conversations over the span of a few months.
  • Focused my gaze at just one of the other person’s eyes at time
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𝒲𝐸 𝒜𝑅𝐸 𝒯𝐻𝐸 𝐵𝐸𝒮𝒯 𝐵𝐿𝒪𝒢 𝐹𝒪𝑅 𝒴𝒪𝒰𝑅 𝐸𝒱𝐸𝑅𝒴𝒟𝒜𝒴 𝒬𝒰𝒪𝒯𝐸𝒮 𝒜𝐵𝒪𝒰𝒯 𝐿𝐼𝐹𝐸! 𝒱𝐼𝒮𝐼𝒯 𝒜𝒩𝒟 𝐹𝒪𝐿𝐿𝒪𝒲 𝒰𝒮 𝐹𝒪𝑅 𝑀𝒪𝑅𝐸!

QUOTE OF THE DAY #101- GOOD LISTENER #2

SOURCES FROM: https://www.positivityblog.com/better-listener/
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2. Tell yourself that you’ll tell someone else about this conversation later on.
One of the best ways to remember something better is to know that you are going to tell what you learned to someone else.
Then you’ll be more alert, naturally start asking more questions to understand and what is said – in my experience – simply seems to stick better.Plus, you’ll stop focusing so much on what to say next and so the conversation tends to flow better.
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𝒲𝐸 𝒜𝑅𝐸 𝒯𝐻𝐸 𝐵𝐸𝒮𝒯 𝐵𝐿𝒪𝒢 𝐹𝒪𝑅 𝒴𝒪𝒰𝑅 𝐸𝒱𝐸𝑅𝒴𝒟𝒜𝒴 𝒬𝒰𝒪𝒯𝐸𝒮 𝒜𝐵𝒪𝒰𝒯 𝐿𝐼𝐹𝐸! 𝒱𝐼𝒮𝐼𝒯 𝒜𝒩𝒟 𝐹𝒪𝐿𝐿𝒪𝒲 𝒰𝒮 𝐹𝒪𝑅 𝑀𝒪𝑅𝐸!

QUOTE OF THE DAY #100- GOOD LISTENER #1


HOW TO BE A GOOD LISTENER

Sources from: https://www.positivityblog.com/better-listener/


Keep in mind: Listening is win/win.
Many may not listen that well because they think they don’t get much out of it personally.
But the better you listen, the better they will listen to you.  And the better and deeper the relationship will be. If you focus on understanding him or her and on giving value based on that then you’ll get the same thing back.
This reminder has been a powerful motivator for me to become a better listener.

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𝒲𝐸 𝒜𝑅𝐸 𝒯𝐻𝐸 𝐵𝐸𝒮𝒯 𝐵𝐿𝒪𝒢 𝐹𝒪𝑅 𝒴𝒪𝒰𝑅 𝐸𝒱𝐸𝑅𝒴𝒟𝒜𝒴 𝒬𝒰𝒪𝒯𝐸𝒮 𝒜𝐵𝒪𝒰𝒯 𝐿𝐼𝐹𝐸! 𝒱𝐼𝒮𝐼𝒯 𝒜𝒩𝒟 𝐹𝒪𝐿𝐿𝒪𝒲 𝒰𝒮 𝐹𝒪𝑅 𝑀𝒪𝑅𝐸!

QUOTE OF THE DAY #99 - GUESSING GAME




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𝒲𝐸 𝒜𝑅𝐸 𝒯𝐻𝐸 𝐵𝐸𝒮𝒯 𝐵𝐿𝒪𝒢 𝐹𝒪𝑅 𝒴𝒪𝒰𝑅 𝐸𝒱𝐸𝑅𝒴𝒟𝒜𝒴 𝒬𝒰𝒪𝒯𝐸𝒮 𝒜𝐵𝒪𝒰𝒯 𝐿𝐼𝐹𝐸! 𝒱𝐼𝒮𝐼𝒯 𝒜𝒩𝒟 𝐹𝒪𝐿𝐿𝒪𝒲 𝒰𝒮 𝐹𝒪𝑅 𝑀𝒪𝑅𝐸!